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Tag Archives: kindness

There’s no such thing as a small kindness

July 4, 2020 · by traceysinclair | in Uncategorized | tagged kindness, personal | Leave a comment

Your gentle reminder that: no kindness is too small, because no kindness is actually small. So, last year I started a Ko-fi page partly as an experiment: I wanted to be OK with accepting money for my work, especially all the blogs and stuff I put out for free. I wanted to at least start getting past […]

Learning to accept others’ kindness

April 15, 2020 · by traceysinclair | in Uncategorized | tagged kindness, personal | Leave a comment

This is an old post, revisited in the time of Corona because I think so many of its lessons are now even more valid. In part this is because I am once again facing grief – my beloved aunt (there she is below, with my lovely cousins and me looking like a mardy brat behind […]

Why we should give ourselves permission to be kind

February 17, 2020 · by traceysinclair | in Uncategorized | tagged advice, kindness, life, personal | Leave a comment

This is an updated version of a post I wrote a while back – but it seems as essential as ever (if not more so). I have been thinking a lot about kindness this week. This has been prompted by two things – public and personal. Seeing the outpouring of donations to the survivors of […]

Trust is a muscle – or why you should KEEP asking for help

July 23, 2018 · by traceysinclair | in Uncategorized | tagged advice, kindness, life, personal | 1 Comment

I’ve written before on topics like kindness, and asking for help, many of those pieces based on my own experience of coping with losing my mum and being homeless all at the same time. I like to think I have learned from those experiences: that I have seen the best in people and, if I […]

The half-life of kindness

June 17, 2017 · by traceysinclair | in Uncategorized | tagged kindness, mental health, personal | 4 Comments

I have been thinking a lot about kindness this week. This has been prompted by two things – public and personal. Seeing the outpouring of donations to the survivors of the Grenfell Tower fire – only weeks after Londoners opened their homes to victims of the London Bridge attacks – moved me to tears; but […]

On kindness, grief, loss, art and the Art of Asking

May 31, 2016 · by traceysinclair | in Uncategorized | tagged amanda palmer, books, kindness | 3 Comments

Three years ago, in May, I became homeless and an orphan in the same weekend. Both of those things are true, while at the same time, not true: factually accurate, emotively incorrect. Only child of a single mother, I was indeed (to my knowledge – hi, Dad, if you’re out there!) an orphan, though that […]

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